I agree with Jeff. I just got out of a relationship with a narcissist and he'd never commit even though we were engaged. He could never explain what was wrong until I realized that he was really selfish and could not develop deep feelings. So in a way he did not undertsand himself even but he never wanted to read any books on self development nor get help. His loss.
Good advice Jeff, thank you for providing your male prespective.
Thank you for your male perspective, Jeff!
Love, Cherry