https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/project/manage/134/ https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/project/manage/135/ https://influence.co/matchcom/605098086a7c251284fe0a04/activities/605098c8f411723d67261839/activity https://influence.co/matchcom/605098086a7c251284fe0a04/activities/6050998351d0aa7435a218b5/activity https://posterspy.com/posters/caught-in-the-middle-of-a-fight-between-husband-and-brother/ https://posterspy.com/posters/after-three-affairs-my-ex-wife-wants-me-back/ https://www.themehunk.com/support/members/okcupid.5517/about https://issues.jenkins.io/browse/JENKINS-65139 https://issues.jenkins.io/browse/JENKINS-65139?page=com.atlassian.jira.plugin.system.issuetabpanels%3Aall-tabpanel http://bugs.cacert.org/view.php?id=1512 Its normal for you to feel like you have to keep your excitement a secret Its normal to be afraid to lose the BEST thing that has happened to you in a very long time. Its normal to wake up at night & look at him and be amazed he’s there. Its normal to want a GUARANTEE that he will not be taken from you by some freak event. It is normal to feel uncomfortable but grateful when your family/friends want to throw parties/showers to celebrate your happiness. It is normal to be pleasantly surprised when FI does not act/respond like DH did. It is normal to feel bad that you get two weddings and some of your good friends have not had one yet. It is normal to obsess about your dress and wonder if it is ‘appropriate’ enough but realize that sackcloth and ashes for you would not match with tuxes and pretty dresses for everyone else! It is normal to not have something (garter, bouquet toss, etc)for your second wedding just because you had it for your first. It is normal to worry about your child(ren) getting enough love and attention since you now have FI. It’s normal to want your family to be just as happy this time as the last time! It’s normal to cut and paste this into a document that you can refer to daily, just to remind yourself of exactly how normal you are! It’s NORMAL to worry what his family specifically thinks of you, your kids, your parenting style, whatever. It’s NORMAL to have a few bumps in the road with the stepkids. It’s NORMAL to wonder who’s going to compile this into one list and repost it so we can all print it out and post it somewhere prominent. LOL! It’s NORMAL to wonder if he’s for real because he’s just SO perfect for you and your family. It’s NORMAL for things you hated in your past marriage to bother you now. You just have to explain to FI why. |